Monday, June 29, 2009

Inspiration:People(A Reason, A Season, A Life Time)

A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime.... original title to poem by Brian A. "Drew" Chalker.

People always come into your life for

When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend too you, and they are. They are there for a need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life.....

A Reason, A Season, and A Lifetime written by:

Brian A. "Drew" Chalker©2002

Have a Beautiful and Blessed week!


  1. Thank-you for posting this, it has helped me understand some things that are going on in my life right now.

  2. You are so very welcome casual-crew! I hope that all goes well with everything you are dealing with right now! I also hope you have a beautiful day! :)

  3. Oh, FFM. You have once again posted something that hits home for me. Thank you for posting this. I'll be printing this out on a little card, if you don't mind. Just to serve as a reminder to me. It's nice to remember this once in a while, especially when it seems like things are happening for no reason whatsoever.

    Thanks again, FFM! (I'm starting to ramble...) You are truly an inspiration - fashion-wise and wisdom-wise! :D *HUGS*

  4. Drewablank: I am so glad this spoke to you today! I hope everything goes well with all that you are dealing with! Big Hugs! :)

    Thank you PFP and melissa! :)

    Have a great week everyone! Thank you for stopping by!

  5. thank you ffm! This made my day

  6. You're so welcome Workaholic! Thank you for stopping by! Have a fabulous week! :)